In Romans 12:3b; 18, Paul writes: “ Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the faith God has distributed to each of you.
If it possible, as far as it depends on you, live st peace with everyone.”
The past 5 years has been a contentious and conflict-filled period of my life on many levels. I have dealt with much loss and hurt, and there were times I was afraid that my energy and passion for life was simply gone.
I’ve always felt at my best when I was “doing something.” Through my actions contributing to the common good, helping other people, adding value. And when the conflicts and breakdowns in my relationships with other people seemed to force me out of the “doing,” it really had a negative impact on my “being.”
Slowly, the realization came that I am a human “being,” not a human “doing.” I have value simply because I am a child of God and because I have a relationship with the Holy One. God can always find me something else to do. There are plenty of worthwhile endeavors in the world.
But the “being “ part is my responsibility. On a daily basis this needs my attention. Am I kind? Am I respectful? Am I patient? Am I faithful? Am I engaged or detached? Am I sharp-tongued and hateful?
In these days of anger and conflict, may we be a reflection of the peaceful and loving Christ in the world.
Living at peace with everyone is a tall order. It requires intentionality and commitment. It means I have to think about what I’m saying, and I have to choose not to create conflict. I have to show love, and offer forgiveness.
Thoughts From the Garden 